You and your wife are both fucking losers, you're like two peas in a pod! No wonder you found each other! You don't even like her yet you know you can't do any better! She probably doesn't like you either but she's just one of those women that will stay with what she's safe with! None of you will get the alpha male or alpha female so you may as well stick with each other, having your boring life together, both of you wishing you were someone else!