A blowjob is a pleasure for both the man and the woman. Well, as it's often said and thought, mostly for the man. He is the one being pleased after all. That's why it's called a bloow-job. Job. Fucking it's perceived as a pleasure for both, and it's not called a fucking-job, no, just fucking. But. If the woman doesn't feel great pleasure while giving you "the job" then it's not pleasure for any of them. If there is no enthusiasm implied, it will be dull. It will feel like a favor she does for you. There has to be patience for your needs, patience from her part to see how you reac... Show more