Ew, you want to RESPONSIBLE? With findom? In THIS economy?? That is so lame! You're not supposed to be smart with your money in findom, idiot. The purpose of this fetish is being irresponsible while making me richer as I get hotter. Plus, applying real life to fantasy is a rookie mistake. so be bad, have fun and look at the fat ass that drains you dry! The *perfect* distraction from your sad reality.