(STANDARD DEFINITION) For as long as I can remember my Step-Mother has always had control issues. I've never had a girlfriend or even any guy friends for that matter, because I just know my Step-Mother would somehow be jealous. If I ever disagree with her or try to do something on my own she accuses me of not loving her. I do love her but she knows just how to my weaknesses and how to make me feel bad. She says these things to elicit guilt in me and I always allow her to do it. I guess I enable her to a degree so it's not totally her fault that she's like this. God knows I love her but it can ... Show more