You think sex is all about the orgasm, don't you? You race to the finish line every time you jerk off. That's what porn teaches you. It's overstimulating to get you to cum fast. I think that's too bad. If your goal during sexual activities is to "win" by cumming fast then you're missing out on all the pleasure of sensuality. Sensate Focus is about the pleasure of touch. Focusing on the intimacy of the sexual act, and ignoring the orgasm until it happens can help reconnect you with your sexual partner, so why not practice on yourself. Or just enjoy yourself alone in this way. There's no reason ...

You think sex is all about the orgasm, don't you? You race to the finish line every time you jerk off. That's what porn teaches you. It's overstimulating to get you to cum fast. I think that's too bad. If your goal during sexual activities is to "win" by cumming fast then you're missing out on all the pleasure of sensuality. Sensate Focus is about the pleasure of touch. Focusing on the intimacy of the sexual act, and ignoring the orgasm until it happens can help reconnect you with your sexual partner, so why not practice on yourself. Or just enjoy yourself alone in this way. There's no reason this kind of self pleasure needs a partner. Your cock deserves all the love you have to give. ;) This will be the first in a series of finding what types of touch, and where, give you the most pleasure, so that all your sexual experiences can bring you unimaginable pleasure from beginning to end.