What's the best way to catch up with a submissive you haven't seen in while? Not a trick question. It's to tease them like crazy while chatting them up, and watch the struggle to string thoughts together increase as they get excited. Which is exactly what I do here. He's so happy to be back, he doesn't even notice I ask my questions right when I become the most teasing and slidy with my shiny PVC leggings. And I keep doing that again and again until he finally realizes it's not worth the effort to talk, and gives in to my humpy fun instead. Some boys are really really easy. :)