What makes a perfect gag? When it fills your mouth so much that it silences you, makes you drool and then your man comes in and ties the strap to your elbows, making you super frustrated! It takes me a while but I finally settle in with it and 9 times out of 10, I stay upset when the gag is tied like that but as soon as Martin puts me in a hogtie, I start to find my happy place.