The other day I received an email from a confused male who wanted a sub (wtf? why contact me?) to "spoil". His ideal of spoiling was some giftcards and paying a phonebill. Aghhahaha. Now, I understand he wasn't trying to be a pay pig, his fantasy wasn't getting financially ruined. But really. Some of you who DO hold this fantasy of being used financially for a powerful Woman's benefit- have a whole heck of a lot to be schooled on Buying a dinner? C'mon are you 18? That's the stuff that normal men with average jobs do for women they like. Paying a utility? I make money. I can pay my bills, I ca...

The other day I received an email from a confused male who wanted a sub (wtf? why contact me?) to "spoil". His ideal of spoiling was some giftcards and paying a phonebill. Aghhahaha. Now, I understand he wasn't trying to be a pay pig, his fantasy wasn't getting financially ruined. But really. Some of you who DO hold this fantasy of being used financially for a powerful Woman's benefit- have a whole heck of a lot to be schooled on Buying a dinner? C'mon are you 18? That's the stuff that normal men with average jobs do for women they like. Paying a utility? I make money. I can pay my bills, I can also pay for my luxuries- let me break them down for you- massages, pedicures, spa treatments, web design (purchased but yet to be published), my PO BOX, hotel stays, All of that I handle. How much is it? How important would you feel covering a $60 dinner. This is a course in reality. Im going to FetCon in FLorida this august. I have 4 nights hotel stay that have yet to be purchased. DO you want to be a paypig? A real one who name (nickname) I might actually utter in a room ful of other powerful dommes? You think Any of us give a about some name less forgettable fuck who once paid for a manicure? No. We all make money on our own. You want to stand out and be a paypig for real- it's goign to hurt. it's not going to be a slight inconvenience. it's gonna sting you in your wallet, cripple your financial freedom, and make your dick throb all in once. If you want to matter at all you gpt to really let go all of your creature comforts. You've got to set the bar high for me and live low like a worm..