I don't care about your wife or your marriage. I don't give a single fuck about whatever vows you made. The only thing that I care about is my ownership over you and ensuring that I get everything that I want. It doesn't matter what that interferes with. If that means I get in the way of your marriage? Oh well. You're the one who found me in the first place, you were the one who was so willing to test the limits of your marriage. You made your own choices and I don't care about the fallout on your personal life from it.