Why should I pay any mind to you? There are far too many men, exactly like you, trying to get my attention. Is there a reason that I shouldn't just ignore you too? If you want me to notice you, you have need to stand out in some way. So many men promise to be loyal, promise their dedication, or their money. But after a few days, maybe weeks, they disappear. I don't bother with anyone until I know they're worth my time, until they've proven themselves to me.