Why do you bother trying to keep your wife happy anymore? It seems like a waste of effort, a bit of a lost cause. Your efforts do nothing to improve your marriage so why keep trying? Just give up, stop entirely. You could be spending so much more time with me, stroking for me, worshipping my perfect body. Don't bother wasting time on your wife, you clearly have just settled with her. She's what you know and what you've grown used to, but that isn't necessarily a good thing. I think its time for you to say fuck it and focus your efforts elsewhere.