Chastity is meant to be uncomfortable. Morning wood in your cage shouldn't feel physically good. You will ache and throb until your body eventually gives up and rejects your erections. Your mind and body will become one and you will no longer need erections. At first you will wake up harder and staying your cage will be more difficult but there is nothing you can do. I am the only one with the key. This is good for you, though. Eventually your dick won't work in OR out of the cage.