I know tonight was supposed to be date night, but I have a problem. Remember how I used to have to wear huge bulky sanitary napkins because of my heavy flow period?

Well since I had a uterine ablation that has been so much better...but unfortunately one of the unforeseen side effects is that I'm incontinent. I used to have leaks and a small weak bladder before, but now I'm soaking pads just doing regular things! I piss myself like an old lady all the time! Please, can you look at my pad bulge and tell me if it's obvious? It's so embarrassing!