Let's face it, being a true disciplinarian, to someone not hard-wired for that, can require an act of true balance. My methods in this case, are always staying within the parameters of tolerance ( first and foremost) but still achieving the disciplinary lesson required. I have found that in this type of situation, a long and defined spanking, with more spanking than scolding, will ensure I do that. Hailey has areas that have her coming back for spankings, she has trouble with. Namely her safety (and others) and allowing to let people who are clearly jealous, get inside her head. The paddle ...

Let's face it, being a true disciplinarian, to someone not hard-wired for that, can require an act of true balance. My methods in this case, are always staying within the parameters of tolerance ( first and foremost) but still achieving the disciplinary lesson required. I have found that in this type of situation, a long and defined spanking, with more spanking than scolding, will ensure I do that. Hailey has areas that have her coming back for spankings, she has trouble with. Namely her safety (and others) and allowing to let people who are clearly jealous, get inside her head. The paddle I used previously was too much for her tolerance and as a disciplinarian, recognizing this and adapting the discipline is paramount. The choice of an implement ( after a long session) is also important. In this case, I used Scarlet's punishment paddle. It is sturdy and light, with a sting that would bring her to tears every time. You will see that this sting also brings Hailey to tears, without damage ( I mean she did get 272 swats after all) but really at the same time, allowing her to focus on my words, as well. Hailey is so beautiful (inside and out) and the fact that she continues to seek my help, as a way to improve her life, say everything about these punishment sessions. As you watch this paddling, just know she would not have it, any other way.