Hailey understands that my spankings are used for guidance in her life. She learned about foundations and structure that day and the importance of always building on that premise. I pointed out the rubber had strength (the make tire from it) yet it is pliable as well. She needed to learn a lesson from that by showing her that you have to be strong, but pliable in her life. She confronted tense situations with more tension. he began to understand that with the ease the rubber produced a stinging lesson, with little effort because of its strength and pliability. I chose for her to just feel t... Show more