Let's face it - your marriage sucks! Sure, you loved her once, she seemed to be the love of your life. Maybe the circumstances changed, people change! Expectations grow! You've met me! Now, everything about her seems not to be sexy anymore, she' s boring, your whole sex-lfe (or what's left of it) is not worth the name anymore. But you have developed a certain taste - it won't go away! So don't make her suffer. She's no match to me.