Right now you are being held back. You are not the 'man of the house' the 'breadwinner' in reality your just a dumb loser. Your GF/Wife doesn't know the real you, the you I know.

If you dumped her you could commit yourself fully to me, If you dumped her you could develop an uninterrupted addiction. Your house would be my shrine and you would be fully MINE. You want nothing more than to give yourself to me, to be my property. So that's what you have to do... you have to DUMP HER