I got these great new pants in the mail as a gift and they say size "36" on the tag, which I show you so you can see it too! Well, I don't think I'll be able to get these pants on. I huff and puff, jump up and down and do everything I can to get these pants on. These pants really dig into my fat and threads snap while I put and tug at them. Do they fit in the end? How do they look?