At my first FetCon a few years back, I had the chance to meet Jason Ninja (of Bratty Foot Girls & other stuff), and there was some issue with his thoughts on whether a fat girl of my size could actually be strong. I lift him in different ways (piggy back, fireman, in my arms, etc). I have no issues carrying him around. Then it's to the bed where I squash him under me. He feels all this big belly on him :)