A proper Mistress will put herself in your future shoes first to be sure she knows exactly how a bind will feel for you. My arms are pulled up as high as possible, my legs are bound spread to a bamboo bar. Another rod is tied down my spine to keep my posture perfectly straight. I struggle around, knowing that is exactly what you would do, if/when you are in my shoes. I manage to slip my ankles free as I spin and struggle. I learn next that using another bamboo stick with eye bolts on the ends is the trick to keep my legs spread with no mercy. My high heels make it very difficult to be comfo... Show more