I use rope, plastic wrap, leather hood, gag, and of course vibrating wands to ensure Rik is bound nice and tight, cant scream, and well, also enjoys himself a tad. I inflict a little pain on him, but im pretty sure he considered it all pleasurable. His tutu and tight body suit helps the ropes color pop and my tight binding style stay put, ensures he cant run even if he wanted too. I have a casual fun dommy time with Rik. I do think he enjoyed it too. I mean, wouldnt you?