I love to keep spice in my marriage and that has become more important to me since a few years back I caught my husband cheating on me. I decided to stay with him because I felt it was my fault for not attending to his needs. So now I do whatever I can. Today Im going to do a little role play, that always does the trick. Im going to pretend that Im the babysitter( kind of ironic since that's who I caught him with yrs. back).