I really like power dynamics—way more than it might seem. Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about the power dynamics within feederism, specifically how they connect to BDSM. In some ways, they’re deeply intertwined.

Think about it: destroying your body, getting massive for someone else, is kind of the ultimate act of masochism. It’s sadistic to ruin someone’s health purely for your own pleasure—and, honestly, it’s incredibly hot. Getting fat for someone else can feel like the ultimate submission. You’re changing your body to please them, becoming more docile, more willing to obey, a...

I really like power dynamics—way more than it might seem. Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about the power dynamics within feederism, specifically how they connect to BDSM. In some ways, they’re deeply intertwined.

Think about it: destroying your body, getting massive for someone else, is kind of the ultimate act of masochism. It’s sadistic to ruin someone’s health purely for your own pleasure—and, honestly, it’s incredibly hot. Getting fat for someone else can feel like the ultimate submission. You’re changing your body to please them, becoming more docile, more willing to obey, and, in some cases, solely attractive to your feeder as you fill out with soft, pliable pudge.

But what really intrigues me is the psychological aspect. It’s not just about the physical changes—it’s about trust, surrender, and control. For the feeder, there’s the power of shaping someone’s body to their desires, knowing they hold the reins. For the feedee, there is the thrill of giving up control, embracing vulnerability, and finding pleasure in being molded and indulged.

It’s such an intense, intimate exchange of power, one that challenges traditional ideas of beauty, autonomy, and even health. Feederism blurs the lines between care and control, desire and destruction, which is why it’s so fascinating—and so deeply erotic.

Clip features: fat chat, power dynamics, some health chat but mild