You and I both know that your wife stopped loving you a long time ago. I am shocked that someone could have loved you in the beginning anyway, but something happened along the way where you both ended up together. Maybe you wife just realized it, maybe she's known it for a while, but she doesn't love you. It's like living with a roommate, not a wife. She just lives there, but you don't fuck, you don't go places together. I bet you both pretend when you're out. You both act like you're in a happy marriage but everyone knows. You KNOW your wife doesn't love you.