Face it, everything that we want, crave, enjoy in life pretty much comes with a cost. To live is to spend. You have a home, it costs, you have to eat, unless you hunt or farm it costs. You want attention from a domme, simple idea here, IT COSTS. Don't complain or vent to a domme about spending for her attention and time. You want to be dominated, you want to be controlled, mindfucked, to eat cum, whatever, YOU PAY.