What's a sacrifice if you can't feel it days later? Months later? What's the point of committing to sacrificing for your Black Hottie but only dipping your toes in the shallow end? True happiness and pleasure doesn't take over unless the path to getting there didn't bruise a little. If it doesn't hurt it's not a true sacrifice. If you're not pulling from the depths and crevices of your soul (and bank account) it's not a true sacrifice. How to start? Listen close...