No, it really isn't, not if you do it right! Do you want to live your life afraid of exploring a fantasy you think you'd really enjoy? Do you want to NEVER experience the rush and pleasure of a beautiful controlling woman protecting and owning your private information? Living forever with temptation knowing the only way to get rid of it is to give in to it? You shouldn't be afraid! If you know the rules you can play the game unscathed while reaping all the benefits and pleasures it has to offer.