It really doesn't tax me to make my requests (read: demands). I enjoy it, I enjoy my thought process and including you in it. I'm not considerate of your personal finances, I only care that you pay me when I say to, but I speak to you so normally you don't even feel had until it's over. It's too late then, but it's better you do what I say than for me to call and harass you at your job, or let your step-mama know what you're up to online.