Imagine your fears, the ones you've communicated to me and the ones you haven't, becoming reality. Imagine your secrets becoming common knowledge. You have not given me incredible power by telling me these things about you, you told me because I have incredible power. Your role is now to behave in a way that results in me using my power in ways that enhance our relationship - not destroy your life. Think of it as your one strength in all of this, and don't ruin it: your obedience.