I my wife ass and hands for breaking 2 of my favorite coffee mugs. I love the sound when I smack her palms with the cane as a punishment. The sound of the cane and also the sound of her wailing and crying. The humiliation and the pain are amazing. I believe that a wife needs it from time to time to keep her discipline. All it takes 50 or 60 licks with the paddle or switch to straighten them out.