Imagine I had a folder on you, containing a load of videos and photos that could be very damaging for you if they got out. Now imagine I use them against you as leverage to get you to do things, sexual things.. I'd be exploiting you. You'd get nothing but shame and a loss of dignity and I would be making cash out of the situation. I love exploiting you dumb men, it's fun for me and sometimes you may even get a kick out of it too..