When I get loads of info on you, have a folder of dirt with your name across it's time to choose your wife or your cash. Basically I tell your wife what a sick perverted husband she has or you pay me a substantial amount of cash to make me go away. It's very simple and I know which one I would choose if I was in your shoes. Imagine the look on your wife's face when I tell her all. You can of course stop me doing so by paying cash. What will you choose?