I'm leaning up against a wall at the beach reading a Dickens novel on my e-reader. And you don't matter. I didn't even have the courtesy to let you see my body as I'm wrapped in a sweater. I wouldn't even let you look at the ocean that gives me so much pleasure - you just get to hear the waves crash and occasionally see the wind blow my hair around. You are nothing. I read for my pleasure. And MY pleasure is what's paramount.