There is nothing more satisfying than spending a night in catching up on some reading and writing with a cool drink in my hand. YOU are NOT in this idyllic picture! I'm getting work done, and you do not matter in the least little bit. You can watch the delicious amber liquid disappear into my lips, and my sensuous pleasure at the taste. You can see me giggle and grimace depending on what I'm reading. But you can not have my attention.