maybe "jeans with heels" with a "top on over a vest"! this time you could sat by the fire with a coffee/drink of some sort admiring a pair of ballet flats and a skirt Then possibly stand up a "bit desperate" and wet yourself (good excuse to burn the jeans and shoe's) - you could wiggle your foot around in the wet shoes before slipping one at a time into the fire, to be followed by the top, jeans and knickers! (Hence the skirt) then put on the ballet flats and say to them and your vest "Your turn next time"!