I put my boy over my knee for some good old fashioned swats on his bare bottom just because he needs to know I'm in control here! I know I caught him off guard, that was obvious by his expression when I walked in the room and said, "you must of done something bad today, get over here" and he just put his head down and submitted to his destiny. A good spanking keeps my boy in line and reminded of who he serves! What a good boy!