We have been talking online and have had a great emotional connection, so we decided to take things to the next level and meet in person. It’s new and exciting. It's also especially new for me since this is the first time I have dated a man. We make several attempts to be intimate, but I feel like something is a little off. I am having a hard time feeling totally comfortable around you because you are just so masculine, maybe we could soften you up a little bit? Make this transition a little easier for me? Come on, it'll be fun.