What exactly is "FLR"? A female led relationship. And it's not just walking on the right side of the road, it's leading him by leash too. Whether it's choosing his meals while out to dinner or giving him a strict diet of your spit for the day, FLR holds many wonders... Now how do you drive your man mad? Make him an obedient mutt? Show more cleavage? Withhold sex? Ohh... Yes. Withhold sex.