You do how you like, I want to be close up smothered by your panties like right under the crotch like a bike seat would be. You can talk to me as a tiny person like bug size and be mean or however you'd like but mainly want to be pressed under your weight of your body in panties maybe some long durations under there and get up to see if im still alive and then some more long durations under there. you you do it slow a few times as it fades out under you into darkness and fast sitting down a few times. and some just close enough so I would feel the heat off of it