You've come to me for counseling because you feel stuck, unappreciated, without a purpose in your marriage. You love your wife, but she doesn't know how to take control and be more dominant in the ways you need. The sex and romance in your relationship suffer because of her inability to tap into those fantasies of yours, the only thing that really turns you on. You need help coming to terms with how to navigate this marriage without having this very natural part of you fulfilled.

But I don't think it's you who needs to change. You were born to submit and be controlled by a powerful... Show more