I haven't felt very aroused or sexy lately, so I propose a new idea to switch things up: findom.

I skillfully manipulate you into spoiling me with a shopping spree for new lingerie. I'm clearly pleased with your eagerness to satisfy me through spending and finally let you unlock your cage!

Don't you love the way your money looks on me? How aroused it makes us both feel? Is this what you needed to finally start having sex with me again?