My 36" balloons need a bit of loving. So I underinflate my big balloon so that I can straddle it enough between my legs, and make sure I take my time to grind on top of the balloon. I love the feeling of the balloon getting squished underneath me. There's really a great feeling being on top of this balloon while I'm letting you know how it feels underneath me too! In the end, I take a big 17" Tuftex and blow onto it with deep big breaths until I shred it with just my breath!