)I warmly invite you to settle in to the couch in my office, offer you a cup of tea, and then proceed to tell you some of my esteemed qualifications as a sex . I assure you with my calm voice and relaxed manner that you've nothing to be embarrassed about, and that you can be completely honest and open with me.

You begin to relax, and realize that you feel soothed by the sound of my voice. I ask what brings you in today, and you tell me that you've tried EVERYTHING to quit smoking and you just can't kick the habit. I tell you that I completely understand, that I myself smoked while in ... Show more