I'm not your traditional FinDomme, because I'm not a ruinatrix. A lot of guys into findom are into the fantasy of financial ruin & complete loss of control. But a lot of guys, perhaps like you, find that a little too much, too scary. You want the thrill, you want the power exchange, but you also want a safety net. You want a Mistress who will push your limits but never let you freefall too far. And intentionally or otherwise, this is what I offer. It's why you don't see me post $10k tributes from one guy who scurries away never to be seen again, but you do see me playing the long game with ... Show more