I got a notification from the bank that a second mortgage had been taken out on my home. I didn't take it out and I'm getting that sick feeling in my stomach because I'm afraid my identity's been stolen. I ask my husband and he admits he did it without speaking to me because he "had bills to pay that were none of your business"! I have paid the bills for the last several years because he has a gambling problem. Who knows what he used the money for and who does he think he is?!

When he won't tell me exactly what he used the money for and I've had enough of him beating around the bus... Show more