I make the rules, right? So new rule is, STOP spending money on your wife. She doesn’t deserve it. I am your Goddess and you love me more anyway. After all, your money is MY money and I would never spend MY money on her! So going forward, all of that money will be spent on me. You don’t care about her feelings. My feelings and my happiness are your main concern so I’m sure this new rule should be very easy for you to follow.