You might have been too cowardly to date to sacrifice yourself to your fantasy of Fantasy-Blackmail. You may not yet have been hunted and enslaved by a dominant. Although, you're in a far worse fate than tasting your desires for Fantasy-Blackmail. You, and your cowardly ways have already enslaved yourself in the mental bondage of your unfulfilled desires haven't you? Never satisfied. Never fulfilled. In a limbo of desire but too scared to taste all you desire.