Cayden is submissive by nature, especially with older men, but he’s not really into pain and doesn’t deal with it well. I took him OTK in his briefs and warmed him up by hand, but when I sent him to fetch the paddle, he became scared, sat on my knee, and needed a hug before we could proceed in a touching scene. I used the paddle and brush and he whimpered and sobbed, his voice quivered as he counted the whacks and yelled out in pain.