This 22 year old thought he was tough, said he had a high tolerance for pain, that he was enjoying the spanking. It took me a while, but I slowly broke him down until he cried uncle and begged me to stop. I used my hand and leather paddle, and he tried to maintain a brave front, but I was determined, and broke him with a relentless spanking with the brush. In the end, he had to admit that I won.