I am going to let you in on a big secret. This is just between us as I have a reputation to uphold. I actually prefer a smaller size cock. I would have to say that around four and a half inches is perfect. The man with this must spend time pleasing a woman in many ways. I love when a guy gets me so turned on that even putting a finger inside me could make me cum. Then to have something much bigger than a finger and yet not at all painful.... It is perfect.